A Lady With a Big List of Men Sio Kigezo Hafai Kuwa Mke Mwema!!!!!! Sometimes We are All Victims of Fate!

Lets have a HEALTHY CONVERSATION! Tuchallangiane kwa logics na points! Matusi ni ya makuli kule bandarini. Haipendezi unabinya binya keypad afu mitusi kibao!

Leo nimeamua kabisa nidedicate siku hii ya leo kukabiliana na jamii yetu ambayo ni very JUDGMENTAL and CONDEMNING by nature kujaribu kuwaelewesheni viumbe wagumu kuelewa, wepesi kusahau kuwa sometimes A SISTER GOTTA DO WHAT SHE HAS TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sio mara 1 au 2 watu tumekuwa wepesi kuhukumu, kushadadia, na kuleta upambe nuksi kuwa Mwanamke flani hafai hafai hata kwa mbolea kuolewa coz She has THE LIST (Hii ni THE LIST kwa herufi kubwa manake kuna uwezekano inaweza kuwa NEVER ENDING! au she IS NOT SURE au SHE STOPPED COUNTING A LONGTIME AGO!) UWE ME AU KE YOU GOT NO RIGHT TO SAY SHIT ABOUT THE SISTER NO MATTER HOW CLEAN YOU ARE (TO BE PRECISE YOU WISH YOU ARE)!!!!!!

Mtu kuwa na wanaume wengi sio kigezo cha kumconvict directly kuwa She is a bad person na mtu kuwa na list ndogo sio kigezo cha usafi smts ni lack of opportunity tooo! Mtu kuwa na wanaume wengi au kidogo sometimes ni matokeo ya mambo yafatayo ambayo YAKO NJE YA UWEZO WA KIBINADAMU WA MTU!!!!!!!!!!!!

1. KUZALIWA KICHUNA WA HAJA/ FLAWLESS BEAUTY!!!!!!!!! Mtoto mcute of the cutest, kijungu kijungu, rangi ya carolite ama black beauty, hips hips kama Wema Sepetu! Automatically utapata opportunity kwa watu wa vijijini wataita challanges zisizo na kikomo kutoka kwa MAPEDESHEEE! You jst name your price (Every body has a price) watailipia ili wakatishe japo mara moja katikati ya miguu yako. To whom much is given much is expected! Vishawishi vinakuwa TOO MUCH! Beyond reasonable zone ambayo binri wa kawaida angevishinda! So its logical ku expect from What Wema et al walivojaaliwa na Bwana at the age of 24 na vishawishi wanavopata eti mimi Lara et al nimhukumu kwa TUVISHAWISHI TWANGU kutongozwa na wachovu wenzangu kuwa flani HAJATULIA! COME ON!!!!!!!!!! Hata mimi Lara ningejaliwa vile NISINGETULIA!!!!!!!!! Labda nina kijilist coz wakawaida sanaa anitake nani? Tuhukumu watu kwa kubase Majaliwa yao na uzito wa misalaba yao! Wema katongozwa na wanaume 100, kakubali 20, Lara anaume 10, kakubali 2 sasa hamuoni %wise NGOMA DROO!!!!!!!!

2. KUZALIWA NA BLACK FATE/ MISFORTUNE NA WANAUME!!!!!!!!!! Kuna watu wamezaliwa na bahati zao ati! Mwanaume wa kwanza anafungua njia huyo huyo ana muoa!Jst her lack! Au umezaliwa maeneo full of quality men! Kila mtu potential husband. Sasa huwezi kutuhukumu sisi wengine wenye BLACK FATE! Mtu una intentions nzuri kabisaaa, wala huna tamaa! Ila kila unaepata MAGUMASHI!!!!!!! Sasa kupambana na THE LIST ndo ukubali ku settle for less au uendelee kuwa victim wa THE LIST and AGE!!!!!!!! Whatever pressure gets to you first either way life has ----ed us!!!!!! Its PURELY NOT OUR FAULT!!!!!!!!!!! Na utakuta tunasali sanaa tu! Basi tu ndo vile haijaandikwa! Cause you are SIMPLY LUCKY you got no damn right to judge us, simply because we were not as lucky as you are! HAVE MERCY PEOPLE!!!!!!!! Remember KARMA IS A BI.TCH, your luck may change.

3. EXPOSURE AND INTELLIGENCY! Kuzaliwa mwanamke ukawa very SMART kichwani, afu ukapata EXPOSURE believe it or not ITS A CURSE!!!!!!!!!!!!! No man (Maybe very few tena wanaweza kuwa wameoa) will ever be GOOD ENOUGH (as good enough toka rohoni kwako) for you! Hata ukiolewa kudumu pia ni mashaka sanaaa au umpate mwanaume verty stu.pid au smater than you! Sababu tayari wewe ni Strong Character na umezaliwa na nyota ya Jua! Kama Oprah (specifically fate yako ni kurule, accomplish and kuconquer ambayo ni nyota ya kiume!). Its not your fault that you aint stupid, lakini ki Africa a Womans Place is in the Kitchen Sink! Automatically utajikuta na THE LIST OF LISTS not because you are a Bad Person or something, ni kuwa you are too gifted, you can see right through men, you can smell foul play from a mile, you cant know things are wrong and do nothing, you cant just take shit! Unajikuta una list coz unatafuta stronger character mwenzio. Sasa sisi kina Lara tumezaliwa na nyota ya mwezi, mwanaume anaweza kuwa anakuonea live live wala hushtuki! What you dont know cant kill you! Au hata ukijua you jst find it in you kumsamehe no matter how grave is the offence. You feel happy n nothin is missing! Mtu wa nyota ya mwezi haruhusiwi kumhukumu mtu wa nyota ya jua!

4. MAZINGIRA NA MALEZI! Mtu huchagui uzaliwe wapi? Unajikuta tu umezaliwa iwe kwa Baa medi au kwa bosi wa bandari ndo ushazaliwa! We just have to live our life the way its given to us. Sasa kama umezaliwa sehemu ambapo Sex is a means of life, na kwa kukosa muongozo mzuri ukajikuta ushavuruga vuruga, not because you are a bad evil person ila ni tu kwamba you were not lucky kufundishwa morals at the right time. I know ukija kujua may be at 19yrs wakati THE LIST ishafika 30 men, its not too late! A sisr cant change her past but can surely change her future! Au ugumu wa maisha ulikufanya ufanye things you are not proud of, its not your fault! Shit happens because it just does! Sasa unakuta jitu limelelewa kwenye sofa za cashmere, limesoma kibwenyenye halafu la kwanza kuhukumu. Kama ndo yeye angpitia hayo maisha angekuwa amesha Rest In Peace siku nyingi! Kabla hujamuhukumu mtu jiulize je wewe ungepewa maisha yale ungekuwa Msafi?

All im sayin is WITH THE LIST OR WITHOUT THE LIST It doesnt make you a Bad person or a better person!!!!!!!! ITS JUST A LIST! A sister shouldnt be judged by her past but WHO SHE REALY IS!!!!!!!!!!!